Becoming Secure in the Real You

Think about a person you would like to be…. You will try to do everything to become like that person.  Studying their ways, how they dress and even how they interact. However, we realize we are not secure in the real person we are created to be. We can not allow ourselves to put on someone else’s identity.

The first step to becoming a secure person is to overcome fear. Fear overtakes your security of becoming the person you are created to be. Fear also grips your identity. Fear is a mask of hiding the “real you.” It hinders the way you see yourself as a person and makes you question if you are capable. It also robs you from your security in Christ and makes you unstable in your mind. When you walk in fear it hinders how you value yourself. When overcoming fear, you must replace it with security and only then you will begin to see the way yourself the way God sees you. You are a confident, beautiful and a secure woman in Christ.

The second step to becoming secure is allowing your emotions to be healed. Oftentimes we mask our emotions with other things and don’t allow those emotions to be subjected to positive things. Becoming secure in your emotions allows you to see a clear vision of who you are.

Think about a glass of water that is full of dirt: you are unable to see anything except the dirt in the glass of water. That is what polluted emotions does. It gives us an unclear vision of who we are. Unstable emotions are a security killer which gives an unclear perspective of life. When we overcome our negative emotions and allow positive emotions such as love, joy, peace, patience and kindness, it helps us to become more secure in ourselves.

Lastly, look beneath the surface. When we look beneath the surface we deal with those issues that are critical to our well-being. A few examples are insecurity, jealousy, rejection and feeling unloved.  You can’t become secure until you confront these things beneath the surface. Take a closer look at the things that may be holding you back from becoming a secure person. Your past is a robber of your security when you are dealing with insecurity. I know that this may be difficult however we must get pass the negative and replace something positive to boost our security.

Let’s examine the things that may affect you becoming a real person in your security. Your security is a part of your identity and who you are.

Question: Is not being accepted by your peers hindering you from becoming the “real you”?

When we can get past those things we now become fully open to becoming the secure woman that you are called to be.

I hope these three tips helped you in becoming secure in the real you.

Remember things takes a process and we must continue to be patient in becoming the great person we are created to be in our security.